Thank you Mix it Up Media & Pretty in Pink Spa

Thank you to Pretty in Pink Spa and Mix it Up Media (that’s my neighbor Kerry Hills!) who hosted a morning of networking and entrepreneurial encouragement.

morning-mingle2

I was invited to give a keynote talk this past January about turning fear into success for women.

I spoke about:

  • learning how to accept praise (instead of deflecting attention);
  • strategies to stop the apology train; and
  • how  we let that shitty committee in our minds (fear and doubt) prevent us from stepping out of our comfort zones and taking risks with our careers.

Read More


New website coming…

As you may have noticed I haven’t been writing regular posts because I’m in the middle of updating my blog to a new format.

The new site will be more interactive and reflective of where I am in my career (busting down apologies….one. apology. at. a. time).

On the new site I’ll be offering webinars and you’ll also be able to purchase my books directly on the site.

I’ve hired a new team to help me redesign the site to something modern, fresh and easy to navigate (I hear ya!, the purple on this blog isn’t the easiest on the eyes).

The new site will be ready at the of February 2017!


Thank you YWCA for the award nomination

wod-website-header

This year I was nominated for the YWCA’s 2017 Woman of Distinction Award.

YWCA Hamilton’s Women of Distinction Awards recognize outstanding women and organizations who are committed to the development of other women and to the overall improvement of the community. The Women of Distinction Awards are nationally recognized as one of the most prestigious awards for women. YWCAs across Canada join in the celebration each year, honouring the remarkable achievements of women.

I was nominated in the category of Education/Mentorship.

To see the full list of nominees (in all 9 categories) click below:

YWCA nominees

Looking forward to the March 9th gala.

Thank you YWCA!


Create a winners’ circle

winners2

Do you have a  Winner’s Circle?  These are WINNERS you need to spend time with. As opposed to LOSERS (psst, stop hanging out with losers!).–We all have people who drag us down, but you can do something about it!

So, stop getting financial advice from other broke-ass people with four maxed-out credit cards and student debt they’ve been paying off for 12 years.  Read More


Success does NOT happen to you

cheryl-strayed-quote

Success will not tap you on the shoulder because success does not happen to you. You create success, every damn grueling day. 

Use your fear and anxiety and doubts to motivate you. Fear is good. I respect fear. Fear will ring louder than the naysayers in my mind. Fear will force me up at 5 a.m. because I am fearful of the mediocre life.  Read More


How to gain confidence

Learning to SPEAK UP and voice your opinion at school, in meetings, or  at work is a vital skill that only comes with practice. You have to practice sounding confident until you actually start believing in it.

The video below reminds me of a great quote by the first African-American woman CEO to head a Fortune 500 Company, Ursula Burns, Chairman and CEO or Xerox, she said:

ursula-burns-quote Read More




Modesty is useless for women

womenselfpromotion-quote

Quote by Tar Mohr, career coach

In a 2010 study analyzing the challenge of modesty for women, researchers found that it is more beneficial for a woman’s career to SELF-PROMOTE rather than to be modest about her accomplishments.

What we know is that women:

  1. Need to learn HOW to self-promote.
  2. Need to get over the comfortableness of self-promotion and stop viewing it as a negative, boastful or conceited thing.
  3. Need to support other women and share strategies on how to display accomplishments and the significance of these achievements.

Read More


HOW TO SAY NO

To help you de-clutter your mind, here’s some phraseology to use when saying “nope, not gonna’ do that.”  (I got the idea for this from Sarah Knight’s great book)

Invited to a destination wedding:

Don’t sayI’m actually on a no-fly zone.

Do say: This sounds amazing and I hope your wedding is everything you’ve wished for. Unfortunately, it’s simply not financially feasible for me to attend. Please let me know where you’re registered or where I can send my gift. Thanks! Read More


Black women lean in….and still don’t get noticed.

The consulting firm McKinsey and Company and LeanIn.org  (Sheryl Sandberg’s nonprofit leadership organization) released their latest research on women in leadership positions.

Here are the key findings from Women in the workplace:

Women are negotiating as often as men—but face pushback when they do

Read More




Hey Ladies Stop Apologizing, THE WORKBOOK now available!!!!

The companion to the original book Hey Ladies, Stop Apologizing…and other career mistakes women make (Sept 2016) is now published and available on Amazon, Chapters, Rock’s Mills Press.

You’ll find the  Workbook on Amazon

or Rock’s Mills Press

or Chapters/Indigo

This workbook will help you:

  • Rid yourself of the disease of perfectionism
  • Break your obsession with being “nice”
  • Banish your procrastination and avoidance habits
  • Improve your communication skills
  • Learn the importance of self-promotion
  • Challenge that shitty committee in your mind
  • Force you out of your damn comfort zone

Leadership Summit for Women -Prof. Maja is key note speaker

I’ll be speaking at the upcoming Leadership Summit for Women on Saturday November 12th, 2016 at 2:30 pm in Hamilton, Ontario. The title of my talk is “Hey Ladies, Stop Apologizing” and I’ll discuss  the ways our internal barriers of fear, confidence and mindset negatively impact women’s careers.

Among the problems women face:

  • We’re perfectionists.
  • We apologize. ALL. THE. TIME
  • We’re over thinkers (especially when we make mistakes!).
  • We don’t self-promote.
  • We’re obsessed with being nice.

This is a half-day conference with the goal of  developing leadership skills and facilitating conversations about meaningful change within our organizations, communities and society at large.

This is a community-wide event that brings together women, trans individuals, and allies from the McMaster and Hamilton communities. This event provides the skills, space, and support for all participants to reach their full potential.

The event takes place at the David Braley Health Sciences Centre (100 Main St. West) 

Admission is free! 

https://fhs.mcmaster.ca/main/map_to_david_braley_health_sciences_centre.html

Please see the link below for the agenda of events. 

Leadership Summit for Women | November 12, 2016

Hope to see you there!